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Message In A Minute: Take The Detour

The town I live in is separated from the neighboring town by a good sized river. 

It’s not the Mississippi but i believe it is the largest river in the state. In order to cross this river there is one bridge in the area. Being the only bridge connecting the 2 towns, every year there is a “Battle of the Bridge”, which is where the high school football teams from both towns play. The winner of the game is deemed, the winner of the bridge. It’s a fun tradition going back for years. 

Within the last 5 years or so, the old bridge was finally replaced with a nice, new bridge. It’s wider and lit up nicely at night. And more importantly, it doesn’t make you question your sanity for crossing it like the old one did. 

My family and I don’t have a need to cross this bridge every day, but we do drive past it often enough. It’s only a mile or so from my house situated off of the main road through town. 

Inevitably, when we pass the bridge my 3 yr old son will ask if we can cross “my new bridge”. 

One night, around 8:00, it was just my son and I driving towards this bridge in order to get to our pharmacy. Of course he asks his question as we’re sitting at the red light at the base of the bridge. “Can we cross my bridge?”  My response was something along the lines of “not right now bub, maybe another time”. After all, I had to get to the pharmacy before it closed. 

As we drove on I saw him in my mirror just looking out of the window and I thought, after the pharmacy, if he wants to cross that bridge, then we are crossing that bridge. 

Sure enough, when we came back to the bridge and stopped at the red light, he asked again “Daddy, can we cross my bridge now?”

Little did he know I was already in the turn lane to cross his bridge. 

We start up the bridge to the sound of his hands clapping and as we get to the top I see him struggling to look out the window and down at the water. He was excited just for the view, and he was happy to discover that we just had to turn around and cross it again. I’m pretty sure he had a smile on his face for the rest of the 5 minute trip home. 

I will always provide what my children need. And when I can, I’ll provide what they want, as long as it isn’t harmful to them. 

God does the same for us. He provides for our needs. At times he blesses us with more.

He delights in us (Psalm 18:19). He smiles when we smile. Sometimes He finds joy in the detours. But He always tries to keep us on track and going in the right direction. 

A lot of Jesus’ ministry was detour requests of His children. His sole purpose on this earth was to die for the sins of everyone, yet he was constantly detoured by request of healing or feeding the crowd or raising the dead. 

He took these detours, not because it was required to fulfill His mission, but because His children asked It of Him. 

I know at times he got frustrated. His mission was to lead people back to God through his sacrifice. Yet he wasn’t constantly being pulled in different directions. 

“Lord, my daughter is sick.”

“If you had come sooner, my brother would still be alive.”

“The people are hungry, what are we going to do?”

“They are out of wine.”

“I just wanted to touch the hem of your robe.”

But he took the time to fulfill their requests, because he loved them. What was important to them, was important to him. Even if it detoured him from his mission briefly. He found joy in the detours. 

So, go the extra mile. 

Help others. 

Take the detour. 

Cross that bridge.

-Clay Wise

Message In A Minute: Awareness

There is a scene in the movie “Bourne Identity” that is very interesting to me.

Jason Bourne has amnesia. He doesn’t even know his name, where he’s from, or anything about his past. He knows he was shot, left for dead, and lucky to be alive. He befriends a lady who tries to help him remember his identity.

In one particular scene, the two are in a restaurant late at night. Jason is showing the lady some of the belongings he’s found. He explains that he has an extreme awareness of his surroundings. She dismisses it as normal, until Jason starts to describe his awareness.

He memorized the license plate numbers of six vehicles when they walked in. He noticed that the waitress is left handed. He intuitively senses that a guy at the counter knows how to fight. He knows the best place to find a weapon is in the cab of a certain truck in the parking lot. He wonders why he knows all of this but can’t remember his own name.

There is a skill taught in certain career fields known as Situational Awareness. In general Situational Awareness is described as the perception of environmental elements and the comprehension of how they relate. It is the practice of intuitively avoiding trouble.

For example, knowing where the exits are in a building is one level of Situational Awareness. Knowing that someone is acting abnormally or poses a danger to you is another level. There are color coded levels of Situational Awareness. The fictional Jason Bourne has the highest level of Situational Awareness possible. For us in the real world, it’s an interesting and valuable skill to practice.

We all practice it on a basic level, some go a little deeper with it and I believe those people are more secure and less vulnerable to danger.

I’ve come up with the name for another skill, although many have taught on it using other names for years.

I call it Spiritual Awareness. I would define Spiritual Awareness like this. The ability to perceive emotional, psychological, and spiritual elements in your own life and in the life of others.

It can be as simple as knowing if something is ultimately beneficial or detrimental for you. But, it can go much deeper than that. Spiritually Aware people can sense when others are hurting, and find a way to help or encourage them. Many rightly identify this idea as spiritual discernment. I like to explain it as an awareness because most people are more familiar with that word.

Unfortunately, there are people with no Situational Awareness, they walk through a dangerous area, oblivious to their surroundings. Also, they may not notice when another is in danger. The same can happen to people with no Spiritual Awareness, they walk right into dangerous situations. Or they neglect to see that a loved one is struggling.

Situationally, we can concentrate on our phones while walking in a parking garage and be targeted by criminals. Or we can focus only on ourselves and not help others stay safe.

Spiritually, we can chase blessings and forget to be a blessing to those around us. We can get wrapped up in ourselves to such a degree that we miss the needs in front of us.

Be Situationally Aware while you’re in public. It can keep you and others from physical harm.

Ask God to help you be Spiritually Aware. It can direct you, correct you, and protect you from emotional, psychological, and spiritual harm.

And if you have this awareness to know when someone is hurting or in need without them saying a word. If you can see into broken hearts, hear the silent cries of the forgotten, and feel the ache of the neglected.

You have a spiritual responsibility to invite, involve, and include them.

God made it clear that if we are open to His work in our lives, we will be made aware of so much more going on around us.

Ask for Spiritual Awareness, seek spiritual growth, knock on the door of spiritual compassion.

God will answer, He will reveal, and He will open the door to opportunities for you to be a blessing.

-Tom Wise

31 DAYS TO A BETTER PRAYER LIFE | DAY 21: BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU PRAY FOR

“God, I want to be your hands and feet.”

This is a very common prayer for Christians. We want God to use us to do good works for Him. If you are serious about your prayer life then you have probably prayed something similar. We sincerely want to be His hands and feet. To help the people around us and do good whenever possible. Continue reading

DON’T GIVE UP

Dont Give UpNo matter what life has thrown at you, no matter where you live and where you’ve been, no matter how you feel about yourself, no matter who has said what about you, no matter why you clicked on a link that brought you here…

Your life is a ministry. Or in other words, you are one that serves. Continue reading

THE CALL

The CallA dozen ministry leaders from various churches were sitting in an expensive restaurant. They had gathered to dine and decide who would be the keynote speaker at an upcoming Dynamic Leadership Conference.

After discussing the size of their congregations and various ministry accomplishments there was quite a bit of tension because some desperately wanted their own time in the spotlight. Suddenly all of their cell phones rang at the same time.

None of their phones showed the incoming phone number, all it said on their screens was “I Am”. After looking at each other, the minister of the smallest church nervously answered the call, changed his phone to speaker mode and laid it on the table.

The voice of a stranger though somewhat familiar to a few of them said “in the world’s systems, those in power set themselves up over the powerless. It should not be that way with you. I will send a humble child who knows my heart to be the keynote speaker. You who are listening to my voice will clean the convention center after the crowd leaves.

Because, I oppose the proud but I give grace to the humble.”

Questions For Consideration

1. Have you ever let your ego get in the way of what is most important?

2. What are some ways to overcome our natural desire to be in charge?

3. If humility was a top priority in the church, what difference would that make in our relationship with society?


Written by Tom Wise. Copyright Finding Wonder 2013