We would worry less if we praised more. Thanksgiving is the enemy of discontent and dissatisfaction.
– Harry Ironside
Discontentment and dissatisfaction, are spiritual problems that stem from our selfishness. Our selfishness most often presents itself in our culture through an attitude of entitlement; this idea that we somehow deserve what we want.
Many people live this way, but we do not realize how painful this is to ourselves and to those around us. When we live this way we emotionally punish ourselves by being in a perpetual state of dissatisfaction. We live miserably. Continue reading
A few years ago, I had a series of events happen that changed my life, and my perspective. In August 2013, I had the first of several life threatening episodes. Over the next year, I would be admitted into the hospital several times with symptoms similar to someone that was suffering from sepsis. The first time that I was taken to the hospital, was by far the worst. The doctors told my wife if she had waited in longer to bring me in, there is no way I would have survived. With each incident, I was admitted into ICU, and remained there for several days. Each time I was fighting for my life as my internal organs were shutting down, by blood pressure had dropped to unsafe levels, my potassium was too high, my heart rate was too fast, and so much more. With all these symptoms, the doctors never found a source of infection in my body. Continue reading
“If you are really thankful, what do you do? You share.”
― W. Clement Stone
I believe, if you have a healthy sense of gratitude in your life, you are less selfish, less greedy, and less likely to be a taker. We know from the Bible that it is “more blessed to give than receive.” But to an immature person, receiving is way better than giving. When you receive a gift, you get something tangible to appreciate. When you give a gift, you walk away with nothing to admire. Continue reading
There are times when I want more money, a newer car, a bigger house, and so many other things that money can buy.
I admit that I feel cheated sometimes. I work hard and live right, but don’t seem to have as much as others.
But when I stop, and put things in perspective, I realize that I have so much, that money cannot buy. Continue reading
I love the Andy Griffith show, so forgive me for this example.
Otis, the town drunk would come in the courthouse on the weekend and lock himself up for public intoxication. He would sleep off his hangover, and he would let himself out of the prison cell the next day. It all worked very smooth, Otis was safe from hurting himself or someone else. The sheriff didn’t have to go out of his way to pursue the guilty man. And Barney got to have someone in a cell, which he seemed to like. All three were grateful in their own way.
Here comes the difficult idea. Continue reading